When asked what traits they are looking for in a potential partner, many men and women claim that their dream date would have to be “good” in bed.

However, for those who are less experienced in between the sheets, it may appear unclear what people mean by this. Being “good” in bed is truly subjective and each person’s idea on what this constitutes is likely to slightly differ.

Nevertheless, this article presents five common beliefs on the qualities which makes people “good” in bed.

Stamina

Both men and women are keen to experience orgasm during intercourse. In order to achieve this, they require their partner to have a certain level of stamina. Women need their man to be able to hold on their orgasm so they can reach theirs, whilst men need partners to have the stamina to keep going until they reach climax.

Confidence

It is generally believed that those who are confident enough to rid themselves of any inhibitions are more likely to give their partner a thrilling time between the sheets. Confident lovers are generally better at communicating with their partners, trying more daring sexual positions and showing their body off to the fullest.

Experimenting

Those who are more willing to experiment outside of vaginal intercourse are generally regarded as being “good” in bed. In order to spice up their love lives many people choose to introduce sex toys into the mix. Other couple enjoy experimenting with anal sex, oral sex or threesomes.

Selflessness

The best lovers care more about their partners having a good time than they do about themselves. A selfless lover is very generous with foreplay and won’t stop until their partner reaches orgasm.

Appetite

Most people need a partner whose sexual appetite matches or exceeds their own. Partners who continually deliver the goods at their partners beck and call are generally regarded as being a good lover.

Unfortunately, these skills don’t come naturally to everyone – but luckily the best way to improve is with practice! If either a man or a woman wants their partner to improve in bed, they should make the effort to spend more time there together until they can reach higher standards.

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